Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. —1 Corinthians 13:4-8, New International Version
Objective
To teach that the law of God recorded in Exodus 20 (the 10 Commandments) reveals God’s love for mankind by providing guidelines for living a life full of blessings and goodness.
Note to parents
We encourage you to read through this material with your children to provide an overview of the 10 Commandments listed in Exodus 20 and how these truths impact and guide our relationship with God and our fellow man. Then work through each commandment in detail, along with additional supplemental pages that you feel would be helpful in teaching and reinforcing the meaning of each commandment.
God is in the process of creating an eternal family, which will be composed of individuals who reflect His character-image of love.
God is love. All that God is and does expresses His pure and perfect love
1 John 4:8-10
. Forming man in His image, this supreme, loving spirit being created mankind for a special and specific purpose—to become like Him
Leviticus 19:2
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1 Peter 1:16
. God is in the process of creating an eternal family, which will be composed of individuals who reflect His character-image of love.
Since God’s ultimate purpose is to mold and shape mankind into His character-image, He granted man something unique at creation—a mind that is like His. Compared to our perfect Maker, our minds are unquestionably inferior and limited
Isaiah 55:8
. Yet He did grant man the ability to think, reason and choose, unlike any other creature within creation
Genesis 2:20
. It is with this distinct mind that man has the opportunity to grow and develop the godly character of love
Philippians 2:5
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Out of His perfect love for mankind, God generously set forth laws and principles to reveal His divine nature and holy character. Just as God created physical laws relating to energy and gravity, He has also created spiritual laws relating to man’s mind and heart
Romans 7:14
. It is through obedience to these spiritual laws—the righteous standards of God—that man gains the wisdom necessary for living a way of life that produces character reflective of the Almighty God—the character of love
1 John 2:5
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2 John 1:6
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Out of His perfect love for mankind, God generously set forth laws and principles to reveal His divine nature and holy character.
In Exodus 20 we find the very basis of godly character—God’s “Ten Commandments”
Exodus 34:28
. These commandments establish the only viable foundation for mortal man to develop and maintain a right relationship with His Creator and fellow man. It is through the keeping and applying of the 10 Commandments that man is able to express genuine love toward God and neighbor
1 John 4:8-21
. Contrary to what most people believe, the law of God shows us how to live a full, abundant life, which leads to eternal life
Matthew 19:16-17
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Although Exodus 20 provides the first complete listing of the 10 Commandments in Scripture, the governing authority and full effect of these spiritual laws existed with the beginning of human life upon this earth
Romans 5:12-14
. God plainly instructed Adam that disobedience to His ways would result in death
Genesis 2:15-17
. We read in Romans 6:23, “For the wages of sin is death.” Scripture is clear: “Sin is the transgression [breaking] of the law”
1 John 3:4
. Finally, Romans 4:15 confirms, “For where there is no law there is no transgression.” If no laws were in effect at creation, then God would not have warned Adam. Since Adam, man has willingly chosen to break God’s central commands and has suffered the consequences for his disobedience
Romans 3:23
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Many have a mistaken understanding that Jesus Christ opposed, modified or even abolished the keeping of the 10 Commandments. This is simply not accurate. Throughout His teachings and His life, Jesus Christ upheld God’s holy law by honoring and magnifying it
Isaiah 42:21
. Jesus Christ, the sinless Law Keeper, teaches us that the law governs the external actions and the internal heart (Matthew 5). Going beyond the letter, Christ’s instructions reveal the full, spiritual intent and permanence of God’s absolute truths
Matthew 5:17-19
; see also
Hebrews 13:8
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True and faithful servants of the Father and Son will display the love and character of God because they obey the 10 Commandments.
Reflecting the power and purity of the Father’s love, Jesus Christ’s faithful, spotless example demonstrates that the 10 Commandments provide principles of righteousness, which guide our thoughts, attitudes and actions toward God and our fellow man. Christ commands us to follow His perfect example of love and service
John 13:34-35
. Clearly, obedience and love cannot be separated
John 14:15, 21
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1 John 2:3-6
. True and faithful servants of the Father and Son will display the love and character of God because they obey the 10 Commandments
Romans 2:13
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John 15:10
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You shall have no other gods before Me (Exodus 20:3).
Since it is impossible for man to serve two masters, God expects man to willingly extend his undivided love toward Him.
Desiring to establish, protect and nurture an exclusive, intimate relationship with man, God commands the complete rejection and removal of all substitute gods from our daily lives. Since it is impossible for man to serve two masters
Luke 16:13
, God expects man to willingly extend his undivided love toward Him
Exodus 34:14
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You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments (Exodus 20:4-6, NIV).
Through this commandment, God reveals the necessity of not misrepresenting His glory through improper and unacceptable worship
Hebrews 12:28-29
. We are to worship God in spirit and truth
John 4:23-24
. When we fashion the invisible God into a physical or mental image of our imagination, we reduce Him to human terms—limiting His majesty and His power
Isaiah 40:18, 22, 25
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You shall not misuse the name of the LORD your God, for the LORD will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name (Exodus 20:7, NIV).
Throughout Scripture, God's name declares His righteous attributes—His goodness, His mercy, His holiness and His steadfast love.
Revealing Himself through His name, God commands man to honor and hallow His holy name. We are warned against speaking God’s name as if it were nothingness. Throughout Scripture, God’s name declares His righteous attributes—His goodness, His mercy, His holiness and His steadfast love. By careful and thoughtful use of our Sustainer’s name, we honor and acknowledge who and what He is
Psalm 96:8
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Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is a sabbath to the LORD your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your male or female servant, nor your animals, nor any foreigner residing in your towns. For in six days the LORD made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the LORD blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy (Exodus 20:8-11, NIV).
Blessing mankind with rest from his labors, God commands the observance of the seventh-day Sabbath from sunset Friday to sunset Saturday as a memorial of His creation.
Mark 2:27
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Genesis 1:5, 8, 13, 19, 23, 31
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2:2-3
. During this holy time, man is reminded of his dependency upon his Creator while he is refreshed in His goodness
Exodus 31:14-15
. This gift from our Redeemer remains a perpetual sign of obedience for His faithful people
verse 17
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Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you (Exodus 20:12, NIV).
Since family relationships are first and foundational in shaping all human relationships, God commands the giving of honor to parents. Respecting and obeying one’s parents lead to respecting all authority—especially that of one’s Creator. Through a close, enriching parent-child relationship, God’s truths are securely passed forward to the next generation
Psalm 71:18
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145:4
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You shall not murder (Exodus 20:13).
As the sovereign author of life, God commands man to protect and value human life. Made in the very likeness and image of his Creator, man’s life is God-given and sacred
Genesis 1:26-27
. In guarding the sanctity of human life, we must also remove all attitudes and actions of malice, envy and anger from our hearts
Matthew 5:21-22
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James 3:9
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You shall not commit adultery (Exodus 20:14).
Preserving the sanctity of marriage and the security of family, God commands man to maintain sexual purity
1 Corinthians 6:18
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Hebrews 13:4
. Since the marriage relationship is a symbol of Christ and the Church, God regards it as precious, righteous and holy in His sight
Ephesians 5:22-31
. This commandment confronts all sexual immorality within our lives—even within our innermost thoughts
Matthew 5:27-32
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You shall not steal (Exodus 20:15).
This commandment requires man to depart from greedy selfishness and move to diligent generosity—from taking to giving
Ephesians 4:28
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Philippians 2:4
. In all of its various forms, stealing confesses a lack of trust in God’s provision. We must respect and safeguard others’ possessions as though they were our own
Exodus 23:4-5
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Deuteronomy 22:1-4
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You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor (Exodus 20:16, NIV).
As the giver of absolute truth, God commands that every aspect of man’s life represent unconditional honesty
Zechariah 8:16-17
. When we consistently live and speak truthfully, we demonstrate our desire to follow the God of truth and to reject the father of lies
Isaiah 65:16
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John 14:6
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John 8:44
. Our daily words and actions should characterize integrity, trustworthiness and uprightness—stabilizing relationships and protecting reputations (Pslam 51);
Proverbs 10:20-21
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You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor (Exodus 20:17, NIV).
Exposing the wretchedness of our deepest, inward desires, this commandment requires the cleansing and guarding of our hearts and minds from earthly lusts
Mark 7:21-23
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Colossians 3:5
. Humble obedience, coupled with an earnest desire to seek God’s way of righteousness, leads to the purifying of our hearts and minds from the unlawfuldesires of greed and lust (Psalm 51);
73:25
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1 John 2:15-17
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Man's duty is to fear God and keep His commandments.
Without knowledge and understanding of God’s spiritual laws, mankind does not have the capability to discern right from wrong
Romans 7:7
. Therefore, man’s duty is to fear God and keep His commandments
Ecclesiastes 12:13
. We must place our complete confidence in the Supreme Lawgiver’s wisdom and rely upon His commandments to guide our lives
James 4:12
. It is a choice that God set before not only Adam and ancient Israel, but each and every individual today
Deuteronomy 30:19
. Established for our benefit, these laws of life provide the loving boundaries necessary for mankind to live a holy, just and righteous life
Romans 7:12
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1 John 4:8-10
8 He who does not love does not know God, for God is love. 9 In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. 10 In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins.
So Adam gave names to all cattle, to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper comparable to him.
So he was there with the LORD forty days and forty nights; he neither ate bread nor drank water. And He wrote on the tablets the words of the covenant, the Ten Commandments.
8 He who does not love does not know God, for God is love. 9 In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. 10 In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. 11 Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12 No one has seen God at any time. If we love one another, God abides in us, and His love has been perfected in us. 13 By this we know that we abide in Him, and He in us, because He has given us of His Spirit. 14 And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent the Son as Savior of the world. 15 Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God. 16 And we have known and believed the love that God has for us. God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him. 17 Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness in the day of judgment; because as He is, so are we in this world. 18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love. 19 We love Him because He first loved us. 20 If someone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen? 21 And this commandment we have from Him: that he who loves God must love his brother also.
16 Now behold, one came and said to Him, “Good Teacher, what good thing shall I do that I may have eternal life?” 17 So He said to him, “Why do you call Me good? No one is good but One, that is, God. But if you want to enter into life, keep the commandments.”
12 Therefore, just as through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men, because all sinned—13 (For until the law sin was in the world, but sin is not imputed when there is no law. 14 Nevertheless death reigned from Adam to Moses, even over those who had not sinned according to the likeness of the transgression of Adam, who is a type of Him who was to come.
15 Then the LORD God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to tend and keep it. 16 And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, “Of every tree of the garden you may freely eat; 17 “but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die.”
17 “Do not think that I came to destroy the Law or the Prophets. I did not come to destroy but to fulfill. 18 “For assuredly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, one jot or one tittle will by no means pass from the law till all is fulfilled. 19 “Whoever therefore breaks one of the least of these commandments, and teaches men so, shall be called least in the kingdom of heaven; but whoever does and teaches them, he shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.
34 “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. 35 “By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”
21 “He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he who loves Me. And he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and manifest Myself to him.”
3 Now by this we know that we know Him, if we keep His commandments. 4 He who says, “I know Him,” and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. 5 But whoever keeps His word, truly the love of God is perfected in him. By this we know that we are in Him. 6 He who says he abides in Him ought himself also to walk just as He walked.
“No servant can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be loyal to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.”
28 Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom which cannot be shaken, let us have grace, by which we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear. 29 For our God is a consuming fire.
23 “But the hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for the Father is seeking such to worship Him. 24 “God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.”
18 To whom then will you liken God?
Or what likeness will you compare to Him?
22 It is He who sits above the circle of the earth,
And its inhabitants are like grasshoppers,
Who stretches out the heavens like a curtain,
And spreads them out like a tent to dwell in.
25 “To whom then will you liken Me,
Or to whom shall I be equal?” says the Holy One.
2 And on the seventh day God ended His work which He had done, and He rested on the seventh day from all His work which He had done. 3 Then God blessed the seventh day and sanctified it, because in it He rested from all His work which God had created and made.
14 ‘You shall keep the Sabbath, therefore, for it is holy to you. Everyone who profanes it shall surely be put to death; for whoever does any work on it, that person shall be cut off from among his people. 15 ‘Work shall be done for six days, but the seventh is the Sabbath of rest, holy to the LORD. Whoever does anywork on the Sabbath day, he shall surely be put to death.
‘It is a sign between Me and the children of Israel forever; for in six days the LORD made the heavens and the earth, and on the seventh day He rested and was refreshed.’ ”
Now also when I am old and grayheaded,
O God, do not forsake me,
Until I declare Your strength to this generation,
Your power to everyone who is to come.
26 Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” 27 So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.
21 “You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment.’ 22 “But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment. And whoever says to his brother, ‘Raca!’ shall be in danger of the council. But whoever says, ‘You fool!’ shall be in danger of hell fire.
22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. 30 For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones. 31 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and thetwo shall become one flesh.”
27 “You have heard that it was said to those of old,‘You shall not commit adultery.’28 “But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 “If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell. 30 “And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell. 31 “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ 32 “But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.
4 “If you meet your enemy’s ox or his donkey going astray, you shall surely bring it back to him again. 5 “If you see the donkey of one who hates you lying under its burden, and you would refrain from helping it, you shall surely help him with it.
1 “You shall not see your brother’s ox or his sheep going astray, and hide yourself from them; you shall certainly bring them back to your brother. 2 “And if your brother is not near you, or if you do not know him, then you shall bring it to your own house, and it shall remain with you until your brother seeks it; then you shall restore it to him. 3 “You shall do the same with his donkey, and so shall you do with his garment; with any lost thing of your brother’s, which he has lost and you have found, you shall do likewise; you must not hide yourself. 4 “You shall not see your brother’s donkey or his ox fall down along the road, and hide yourself from them; you shall surely help him lift them up again.
16 These are the things you shall do:
Speak each man the truth to his neighbor;
Give judgment in your gates for truth, justice, and peace;
17 Let none of you think evil in your heart against your neighbor;
And do not love a false oath.
For all these are things that I hate,’
Says the LORD.”
So that he who blesses himself in the earth
Shall bless himself in the God of truth;
And he who swears in the earth
Shall swear by the God of truth;
Because the former troubles are forgotten,
And because they are hidden from My eyes.
“You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it.
21 “For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, 22 “thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lewdness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness. 23 “All these evil things come from within and defile a man.”
15 Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world. 17 And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.
What shall we say then? Is the law sin? Certainly not! On the contrary, I would not have known sin except through the law. For I would not have known covetousness unless the law had said, “You shall not covet.”
“I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live;